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What Am I Doing Wrong?

 


ILAN

NOTHING. You are doing nothing wrong. Are you kidding me Ilan, if I am doing nothing wrong, then how come I am far from… or not getting the results I desire and so on?

I am not kidding you, I just see things differently, and I ask different questions, that’s it. If you follow my blog you probably know how often I talk about asking the right questions.  And “what am I doing wrong?” Is for sure not one of them. You see, when you ask a question you will always find the answer, deepened on the question you ask how and when you will receive the answer, every question we ask will be answered in one way or another, we must keep our attention strong.     

 Now that we clear that, let’s change the question to:

What are the right things I am doing and how can I do more of them?

You see, when we ask what am I doing wrong. I will keep showing myself what I am doing “wrong”, example, keep giving in to my desire for sugar, or cake, or fries or whatever it is. Keep eating more or less then I should. Keep thinking mad thoughts about myself and so on…

But when we ask questions like:

What are the right things I am doing?

What kind of behavior should I strengthen to get closer to my goal?

How can I elevate myself to create a better plan then the one I allegedly have?

You get the idea. I bet you, you didn’t expect this kind of list in this post, and probably thought I would list: Drink more water, move yourself more, go to bed early and rise up at 5 am, eat vegetables and fruits before you eat anything ells, eat more legumes that you cook at home and minimize dinning out, avoid drinking alcohol and avoid smoking, go get yourself a personal trainer, do more yoga, and go vegan.

Well, as much as I would love everyone living like so, that probably wouldn’t work for more than 80% of the people I know. Because what I find right for me doesn’t necessarily right for you him.

And by asking yourself the right questions, you will learn to work towards a path that soothes your steps.

If you need help, feel free to reach out to me with any question and I will do my best to get back to you within 48 hours.

Much love and gratitude Ilan Halfon

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